"According to Elizabeth Kubler Ross, when we are dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all move through five distinct stages of grief. We go into denial, because the loss is so unthinkable we can't imagine it's true. We become angry with everyone, angry with survivors angry with ourselves. Then we bargain, we beg, we plead, we offer everything we have, we offer up our souls in exchange for just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is to hard to maintain we fall into depression, despair, until finally we have to accept we have done everything we can. We let go. We let go and move into acceptance."
this is a quote from Grey`s anatomy for those who don`t know. but keep that fact aside and think with me isn`t it really true? especially in love and relationships ??
breakups are always hard. always disastrous . when someone becomes your life it is very hard to just imagine your life without him/her. you feel pain inside you. as if a fire is eating your heart up.and one moment you start going through the steps above.
breakups are not always after a relationship. if you are in love with someone who has no idea that u exist and u decide to get over him/her this is also a breakup specially if you have been building tons of plans for your future together.
breakups make u feel horrible and u start asking your self many questions. am i the problem ? can`t this be fixed ? am i ever going to find someone who loves me ? why is it that every time i choose someone to be with me i choose a wrong person .
these questions make u feel that u are not good for anything , and u can`t be loved.
breakups are heart breaking
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