when ever you are really scared of something people keep asking you this question " what is the worst thing that could happen?". when i was at college waiting for my results my dad used to ask me that , and i used to answer " i might fail and repeat the year " and then he answers " then u will repeat the year and lean from your mistakes , you are still young "
it is amazing how he made that so simple. but the problem is : what people usually put as "the worst that could happen" is not actually that horrible when compared to what actually happens!!! what happens always exceeds your expectations and your limited imagination.
so here is how it goes : your wedding day approaches and u freak out that the day won`t turn out to be as u hoped but what happens is that day does not come and your relationship with that person does not continue to your wedding day !!!
the results day comes and you think of that subject in which you did so bad and you think it is only one subject even if you had to repeat it this will not be a big deal , but then that day comes and you fail that other subject that you think u did great in its exam , or even worst u fail the year !!!
so what can u do to avoid that ?? the answer is : don`t expect please don`t , because nothing really matters. you may not even live until that results day , you may not even live till tomorrow so don`t burden your hearts with even thinking what could take place , u did what you thought is right , what you thought will make u happy one day , what will happen next is not important bec, next might not even come !! ad even if it did pain will end someday with the end of time and life !
it is amazing how he made that so simple. but the problem is : what people usually put as "the worst that could happen" is not actually that horrible when compared to what actually happens!!! what happens always exceeds your expectations and your limited imagination.
so here is how it goes : your wedding day approaches and u freak out that the day won`t turn out to be as u hoped but what happens is that day does not come and your relationship with that person does not continue to your wedding day !!!
the results day comes and you think of that subject in which you did so bad and you think it is only one subject even if you had to repeat it this will not be a big deal , but then that day comes and you fail that other subject that you think u did great in its exam , or even worst u fail the year !!!
so what can u do to avoid that ?? the answer is : don`t expect please don`t , because nothing really matters. you may not even live until that results day , you may not even live till tomorrow so don`t burden your hearts with even thinking what could take place , u did what you thought is right , what you thought will make u happy one day , what will happen next is not important bec, next might not even come !! ad even if it did pain will end someday with the end of time and life !
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